Vichaaram on Bhagavad Gita

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As I learn Bhagavad Gita in a systematic manner from a traditional Guru (linkedin.com/in/karthikblr), wish to spread the wealth so interested people can gain from it. There is a reason Bhagavad Gita is considered as the user manual for human beings, most sophisticated machine, in this world. If we are able to master this machine, anything else will become a child’s play.

Starting with an invocation!

Swami alias Swaminathan: Om Parthaya Prathibodhithaam..
Lucky alias Lakshmi: What are you chanting?
Swami: Dhyana Shloka -1 of Bhagavad Gita. Meaning is
“Seek blessings from Mother Gita, taught to a great warrior, Arjuna, by The Lord. It is written by Sage Vyasa and taught in the middle of a battlefield, comprised of 18 chapters that eliminates misery completely!” Reference

Lucky alias Lakshmi:How is Gita applicable to a busy woman like me at the peak of life? Isn’t it only useful for oldies?
Swami:The Bhagavad Gita defines humanity’s REAL goal along with the means (techniques, tips, and tools) to achieve it Reference

Lucky alias Lakshmi: So, does Bhagavad Gita show me how to make money? Can it magically fetch me a million bucks?
Swami: Is a million sufficient to live “happily ever after” like in fairy tales? How about a promise to have eternal happiness regardless of any external or internal impacts? That is what Bhagavad Gita guarantees you, if you are absolutely committed to it!  Reference

Lucky alias Lakshmi: Why do I need a self-help book, when, as an adult, I am mature enough to handle myself?
Swami: Mental health is a major concern today. Dhyana Shloka 6 (Bheeshma Drona Thata..) describes varieties of impacts/situations/people that can affect us such as:

  1. The devil and deep sea
  2. Tip of iceberg
  3. Friendly smile with hidden dagger
  4. Shark-like
  5. Deceptively calm yet powerful enough to drown the most resilient
  6. Highly Turbulent waves
  7. Terrible crocodiles that don’t care
  8. Whirlpools that engulf

However, all of these can be traversed easily through mastering Gita or through guidance of someone who has mastered Gita.Reference

Lucky: You give the Bhagavad Gita so much hype! Give me a small gist of what’s in it?

Swami: The Bhagavad Gita is composed of 18 chapters. These 18 chapters can be split into 3 sections with 6 chapters each: Karma Kanda, Upasana Kanda, and Jnana Kanda. Karma Kanda is essentially the transition from lethargy to meaningful action. In other words,  asking what can I get becomes what can I contribute.Reference

Swami Continues: Karma yoga enables an individual to act efficiently in this world. However, the individual is still limited by body and mind. Upasana Kanda elaborates about a dimension beyond the body and mind that is limitless. A human being’s natural longing to go beyond limits is intrigued by this. Jyana Kanda expounds on how an individual can transcend the limitations and become the unlimited, unaffected by any impacts. Endowed with such a comprehensive  structure, The Gita is a relevant and practical guide that can be applied to every aspect of our daily lives. Reference

Lucky alias Lakshmi: I am still not sure if it applies to me. Wasn’t Gita told by Krishna to make Arjuna fight? We don’t live in such barbaric times anymore…

Swami: When we say “The quiz was a piece of cake”, we don’t mean it in absolute sense. It is contextual implying an easy quiz. Similarly, Arjuna’s dilemma represents OUR dilemma!

Gita’s first chapter explains through Arjuna’s words, how a person transitions across the following stages in a vicious cycle:

  1. Ignorance – The thought that we are incomplete and need external help
  2. Desire – Longing to feel complete
  3. Action – Steps taken externally to fulfill the desire
  4. Attachment – Hanging on to favorable results achieved or Repulsion – Distancing from unfavorable outcomes
  5. Sorrow – Either owing to separation from attached object or disillusionment from expected results
  6. Confusion – Sense of right and wrong is flipped leading to further ignorance (“back to square one”). Reference

Lucky alias Lakshmi: Isn’t it still wrong to kill respectable elders and teachers, even for huge amount of wealth? War can also result in innocent people being terribly affected as is pointed by Arjuna.

Swami: As per the law today, there are certain unforgivable crimes that result in capitol punishment. The duty of Governments is to enforce the same regardless of who is the criminal, including respectable teachers/elders. Additionally if such criminals are high ranking Government officials, innocent people under such a Government will suffer more than during a war. Arjuna is getting confused as seen from Gita chapter 1 shloka 36 (“Nihathya Dhartharashtraan”) where he exclaims that killing such criminals (“Aathathaayi”) will incur sin. Reference

Lucky alias Lakshmi: If I am confused due to distress, I usually confide in a close friend. Why do I need to depend on some “Guru”, exposing my vulnerability?

Swami: A Guru need not be someone sitting under a tree, eyes closed with a constipated expression seen in many pictures/movies! Since ignorance is the root cause of sorrow, the one who removes the ignorance by imparting required knowledge to a disciple who has surrendered, is a Guru. In Gita, Shloka 2.7 (“Kaarpanya Doshaha”) Arjuna takes refuge in Krishna. Incidentally Krishna was Arjuna’s close friend as well. I hope you choose your friends wisely just like Arjuna! Reference

Lucky alias Lakshmi: Do you mean that this “Guru” will solve all problems for me magically in one sitting and I can live happily ever after?

Swami: Once Arjuna surrenders completely, Krishna starts off in Chapter 2 Shloka 11 (“Ashochyaan Anvashochasthvam”) summarizing the entire essence of Bhagavad Gita. He states that wise people neither grieve for the living nor the dead (not affected by external situations) because they know that they are not the body or the mind. If you are able to experience this true nature of your self, then you can indeed live happily ever after! Reference

Lucky alias Lakshmi: You have completely lost me! If I am not the body or the mind, then who am I?

Swami: That’s the priceless question and longing to know the answer makes one a seeker. Freedom from all sorrows is every individual’s birthright. “I” remain the same from infancy to youth to old age unlike my body. Once the body falls apart, “I” get another body if “I” am not contented and happy. Hence “I” am different from the body. Reference

Lucky alias Lakshmi: Wait, so are you saying that past lives, reincarnation, and souls exist?!

Swami: Globally, around 385,000 babies are born on the same day, each day. However, their birth conditions vary so much: One may be born to a wealthy family, whereas another may be born in a poor family. One my be healthy, while another may be unhealthy. As per Newton’s third law, every action has an equal and opposite reaction. This means that there must be a reason for all the differences in the lives of those children, a previous action that caused this current reaction. The children cannot have done anything in this life, as they have just now come into existence. Something to think about! Reference

Lucky alias Lakshmi: I will believe only what I see, feel, hear, taste and smell. Anything else seems like just imagination!

Swami: Whenever our sense organs come in contact with corresponding sense objects, pair of opposites occur. For example, hot & cold, pleasure & pain, attachment & repulsion. If you want everlasting happiness, forbearance is required to treat these pair of opposites as illusions, which they truly are! It is the transition from “What?!!!” to “So What?” Don’t give permanence to what is actually impermanent. This is what is mentioned in Gita Chapter 2 Shloka 14. Reference

Lucky alias Lakshmi: If I get burnt touching a hot object or cheated by someone, I will surely react! How can I just ignore these and move on?

Swami: While traveling in a desert, we may see a pool of water at a distance and will run towards it to quench our thirst. However, when we get closer, it is revealed to be just a mirage (illusion). In the same way, until our real “Limitless Dimension” is revealed to us, we will think that the mirage of dualities are real and suffer through it. As of now, we must continuously remind ourselves that “truth” is beyond what our sense organs perceive. Reference

Lucky alias Lakshmi: This is completely going overboard for me!! If all that I perceive in daily life is an illusion, then what exactly is this “truth”?

Swami: There are two aspects in the universe we see – Perishable things that we are able to cognize and a changeless entity which is imperishable. This imperishable entity or “truth” supports the perishable universe. Confused? Water cannot be stored or heated without a sturdy vessel holding it. Similarly, perishable universe requires a stable platform which we call as “The Truth”. We wrongly perceive individual bodies as distinct from each other and from the imperishable truth similar to how a single large space is divided into a living room, kitchen, bedroom in a house by the walls. Reference

Lucky alias Lakshmi: I am still unable to comprehend “The Truth”. Can you elaborate its qualities?

Swami: “The Truth” is devoid of qualities since qualities/characteristics are things we comprehend through sense organs and hence associated only with perishable entities. However, since it is impossible for mind to aspire for something without qualities, we can consider “The Truth” to have the following attributes which are absent in aforementioned perishable entities.

The Truth is:

  1. Neither born nor dead
  2. Neither growing nor decaying
  3. Unsullied by whatever happens to the body and mind
  4. Eternal
  5. Neither the doer nor the experiencer (In Arjuna’s situation – Neither the killed nor the killer)

Elaborating on point 5 above, light is not the root cause for a robbery but is an enabler for the action without which the robbery wouldn’t be possible. (Ch. 2 Shloka 19, 20, 21). Reference

Swami Continues: In point 1, we saw that the “Truth” doesn’t die. So, what happens to it? Just like how humans discard old clothes and put on new ones, the “Truth” discards its current body when the body “is worn out”, and enters a new body. A question might arise that even if the Truth doesn’t die naturally, can it be destroyed unnaturally? The answer is no, the Truth is uncut by weapons, unburnt by fire, neither wet by water nor dried by air. The Truth is homogeneous and immaculate. Not to mention, just like space, the Truth is also omnipresent. Reference

Lucky alias Lakshmi: Still this concept is alien to me. I don’t know how to correlate this with eternal happiness.

Swami:

  1. For a person who pays lot of attention to maintenance of the body (single pointed focus on keeping the body fit, well fed and aesthetically pleasing), Their “Truth” is the body.
  2. For a “left-brain dominant” person who revels in art forms, their “Truth” is the mind.
  3. For those intellectual stalwarts, whose motivation lies in making new discoveries, their “Truth” is the intellect.

Even if we assume that “The Truth” is any of the above three, anything born will need to die one day and anything that “dies” will be reborn. Understanding this will help relieve us from grief. Reference

Lucky alias Lakshmi: How is it possible to look past the sorrow that I feel at the moment, to something that is in the distant future?

Swami: Before we were in our mother’s womb, where were we?

Lucky: Umm…Non-existent?

Swami: Not quite. “I” as an embodied person was un-manifest possibly for thousands of years. I have and will always exist. The same applies when I am clinically pronounced dead (disembodied for thousands of years again). I am “manifest” as a living, breathing human being only in the middle for a paltry 70 years on an average. Yet we make a lot of fuss in those short, yet precious 70 years instead of being a content and thriving life. As such, Krishna states in the Gita to be equanimous with the pairs of opposites in this illusory world and do our duty the best we can without hinging on the result. Reference

Lucky alias Lakshmi: I don’t care about before birth/after death as I know nothing about it. How can I be sure about a decision when in sorrow and confusion?

Swami: Arjuna also did not understand about “The Truth” initially which is why we got the entire Bhagavad Gita (thanks to him!). So Krishna suggests another way for Arjuna to take the right decision. It is the reminder about his duties as a warrior. For example, we have military stationed at the borders of countries. If there is an invasion, it is the military personnel’s duty to protect the nation. They cannot say, “We will follow non-violence and not hurt the invaders”. If they do their duty diligently irrespective of any trying situations, they will be rewarded. If they shy away from it, they will face unpleasant consequences and treated as cowards. Reference

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Vichaaram – 1

Vichaaram continued

Lakshmi: Swami, I am feeling very depressed today. I contribute a lot towards good articles for my company’s magazine but my management doesn’t recognize it and seem to be biased towards some of my colleagues who have been in the company few years longer than me.
Swami: Amma, you got promoted only this year beginning. It is possible that you are the best in the company. However, if you are always the center of attention, can the company run with you as it’s only employee? If you co-operate with your team and company well consistently, what you give, will surely be returned to you according to the Karma theory.

Lakshmi: I did get promoted this year. I understand that am being little impatient but how long should I wait?Expecting appropriate result for something I did very well is normal, isn’t it?
Swami: On the outset, it might seem logical. However, there are multiple factors that contribute to any work done well that is beyond us. If you hadn’t gotten this promotion or if you didn’t get the opportunity to cover those important events on behalf of the magazine or if you had been sick and couldn’t do justice to the work, this wouldn’t have been possible. Hence, the all pervading knows what we deserve and we need to have faith and be patient.
Lakshmi: What you say is very vague. What is my motivation to continue performing well if there is no recognition or late recognition? Sometimes I feel the same with your father as well. Though I suggest valuable ideas, he is quick to poke holes into it or ignores it.
Swami: Amma, you are an intelligent person. I am sure you will be able to understand that support from anyone, be it a team or family members, can be elicited by patiently and attentively listening to and respecting others opinions, carefully analyzing the same and similar past happenings and putting forth your ideas/thoughts pleasantly considering all of the above.
Swami continues:This is exactly what Lord Rama showed us. I have mentioned this to you in the past. Vibhishana, not able to convince Ravana to return Sita, left him and came to surrender himself to Rama. Sugriva immediately conveyed his decision to Rama that Vibhishana is an enemy and he needs to be killed. Though Rama knew the right decision will be to accept Vibhishana as per his ancestors and scriptures and though he could very well take an autonomous decision, he did not do that.
1. He appreciates Sugriva’s concern and says that not everyone will be a great friend like Sugriva
2. He also asks for the opinions of other Vanaras stating they are his well-wishers.Some say Vibhishana needs to be tested and Hanuman says he is good and should be accepted.
3. Rama, with humility, now asks permission to express opinion. Then he quotes from past and scriptures where an enemy who seeks refuge has been accepted. All are now convinced and also happy that their opinions were also considered.
Lakshmi: Doesn’t the same apply to the person I am talking to as well. Both should understand each other pleasantly. Why should I be the only one attempting it?During Rama’s days, the others also might be as logical and open minded as he was.
Swami: If that was true, Ravana would have returned Sita to Rama, apologizing for his behavior. It all depends on the individual person and his or her willingness to change for better. Both Duryodhana and Arjuna knew what is right and wrong. Arjuna’s willingness to identify and follow right path got him victory. Duryodhana’s refusal caused his demise.
Lakshmi: So does that mean, even if people I interact with is like Duryodhana, it is only I who has to always try to change like Arjuna? Isn’t it a waste of time?
Swami: Amma, in current Kaliyuga period, everyone has Duryodhana and Arjuna inside each of us. Sometimes one dominates over the other. The percentage varies based on the person trying. It is up to us to nourish Arjuna more rather than trying to suppress Duryodhana forcefully. Also what we give to the world is returned to us. So if you feel someone is upsetting you, it is possible that you are upsetting someone else that is being returned to you.
Lakshmi: If I upset someone else, why should that have anything to do with me being upset with my management?I always try to satisfy my management’s  work demands and have never disappointed them. You and your karma theory!
Swami: We are trying to associate a direct cause to every effect. There was an incident where a lady was locked up at her workplace by mistake in a freezer room for hours together. When she almost lost hope, a security person saved her late in the night. When asked how he knew to come in and look for her, he mentioned you are the only one who wishes me good morning/evening every day.
Swami continues: When I didn’t see you coming out, I came in search of you. A small gesture that was done unassumingly saved her life. Same for bad deeds as well. How small is the good or bad deed does not matter. It is accounted for and returned in a fitting way in due course of time.
Lakshmi: If Karma theory works, why so many evils are happening in this world? Wouldn’t everyone behave with restraint if they understand every bad deed is returned in a fitting manner?
Swami: I was listening to a discourse by Swami SarvaPriyananda today. He quotes Adi Shankara who says Ignorance leads to desires leading ultimately to Karma. Anyone born in this world will go through this until illuminated by the knowledge that each of us are the soul and not this body. Ways to achieve this lies in any spiritual path people trust and follow. For Sanatana Dharma, Bhagavad Gita shows the path.

Lakshmi: You always drive me somewhere beyond what I can comprehend. I feel I am being micro-managed and daily work is being forced in upon me without trusting me after providing high level directions from the management. I have always followed the high level directions and have been honest if I had concerns with any of them. Even if I did not like a high level direction, once I have stated my concern and understand they are not listening, I have followed the direction with due diligence. This micro-management reduces my morale to a great extent. Though I have been a high performer, it is disheartening to see my manager not trusting me or my decisions on a day to day basis. Is it wrong for a 15 year experienced professional to expect some independence in taking day-to-day decisions based on the high level directions from the management? In fact, if I specify an opinion of mine, he tries hard to make things work the opposite way in many instances.

Swami: Amma, I know this might sound alien to you but Bhagavad Gita states that a great performer is one who does the work happily with full conviction considering it to be God’s assignment. When the person considers it to be God’s assignment, the transaction is only between the person and God. There is nobody else to be considered in this transaction. When we don’t care about the results and leave it at the lotus feet of God, the all-pervading knows better than us what is good for us and will give us what we deserve. What we deserve can very well be what we didn’t ask but is needed for us to grow into a better person. I know that it can be very difficult to practice what was stated in Bhagavad Gita, but you can surely start by doing the following on a daily basis: In the morning when you get up, you can say, “Today, all work assigned to me are by God and no-one else. He loves me and will do the best for me.” When you go to bed in the night, you can say, “God, Thank you for the assignments today. I love you.” Please try to say this earnestly and I am sure you will soon begin to feel better.

Lakshmi: Swami, I do have my doubts if this is going to work. However, I know you love me and saying this for my own good. Also, I am in such a dire state, I really need to do something to feel motivated to work. Hence, I will try this out and get back to you. Good night!

Vichaaram continued

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First part of this conversation is Vichaaram-I.

Swami: In Bhagavad Gita God says, “Whatever may be the form a devotee seeks to worship with Sraddha (Faith), in that form alone I make his faith unwavering.Endowed with that faith, he worships that form and from it attains his desires, which are in reality, granted by Me (alone).” Without unnecessarily getting confused, it will be good to understand what Sanatana Dharma is all about as this was followed by our ancestors so you will be able to appreciate its inherent broadminded nature.
Lakshmi: Well, If I am trying to know about Sanatana Dharma, where should I start? How did you start?
Swami: My first experience were the stories on God told by grandmother. From the stories, I felt God as a hero who helped all living beings in distress when they call out to him with love and affection. I got more attracted to Ramayana mainly because grandmother repeated this story more than other stories. However, I believe grandmother’s intention was to stress on the qualities of Rama so it gets registered in my dull mind.
Lakshmi: Yes, I’ve heard a little about Ramayana. How can you call Rama a God? He was not even able to take care of his wife and he searched for her. If God is all pervading, how can he do this?
Swami: We watch a lot of movies and our mind expects the protogonist to always be a superhero and do things that we will never try in normal life. Purpose of the avatar of Rama was to show how a normal human being should lead a righteous life, respect elders, be truthful and caring towards everyone equally, control anger and handle any adverse situation sensibly.
Lakshmi: Even if Rama is a role model, it might be relevant in the olden age but not in the current scenario.
Swami: Lots have changed now from Tretha Yug when Rama was there. Rama respected his parents and had great listening skills that helped him learn a lot from knowledgeable teachers and made him a great administrator for a lot of years that people still remember till date. Nowadays we have “Generation Why” that neither respects parents nor have patience to listen, questioning basic moral values and self centered trying to achieve what he or she wants at any cost. Now, what do you prefer as a parent in this modern age?
Lakshmi: I feel that is an exaggerated comment. Surely, neither all kids are bad now nor were they all great during Rama’s time.
Swami: Thanks for accepting that parents of today still prefer a child like Rama . It is true that bad and good people existed during all times. My friend  Siva’s parents conduct satsang on weekly basis that allows many children to learn our culture and tradition. There are so many parents sending their kids enthusiastically for the same. Ravana was born to a great Sage and initially a great devotee of Lord Shiva but his pride, ego and lust for another man’s wife caused him to be evil enough to get Lanka destroyed.
Swami: When grandmother kindled interest in Ramayana, I wanted to read it. She gave me Rajaji Ramayana in English. However, she also made me study Sanskrit and Tamil. When I asked her the need for it, she said that, if you need to understand facts of Ramayana, you need to read Valmiki Ramayana which is in Sanskrit. If you need to understand it from a devotional angle and relish the poetic richness, you have to read Kamba Ramayanam in Tamil or Tulasidas Ramacharitamanas in Awadhi dialect of Hindi which can be understood if you learn Sanskrit. Translations can be tricky and hence understanding in original language is the best.
Swami: There is a beautiful shloka that mentions, “When the God who is the known through the Vedas,was born as the son of Dasaratha,the Vedas were  born as Ramayana, with father being Sage Valmiki”. Just like how we do practical experiments to understand the concepts in science, Ramayana is practical application of what is mentioned in Vedas.
वेद वेद्ये परे पुंसि जाते दशरथात्मजे ।
वेदःप्रचेतसादासीद् साक्षाद् रामायणात्मना ॥
veda vedye pare pumsi jate dasharathatmaje |
vedah prachetasadasid sakshad ramayanatmana ||
Lakshmi: If reading Ramayana is equivalent to Vedas, why do anyone need to learn and chant Vedas?
Swami: The reason is as simple as, it is necessary for Brahmanas to chant Vedas selflessly for everyone to live happily in this world”.However, rationalists say that everything should be understood clearly and proved. A person who doesn’t know anything about physics agrees to and trusts what a great physicist says. Similarly, we need to trust our ancestors who are realized souls and have seen far beyond what we have seen. Will explain through some examples in Ramayana on their greatness.
Swami: First example – World’s first best Toastmaster was Hanuman as noted by another best Toastmaster, Rama. When Hanuman introduces himself to Rama and Lakshmana, Rama notes the following about Hanuman:
1. Hanuman speaks correct grammar and never mis-pronounced any word.
2. His body language is good and not distracting
3. His sentences are short and crisp and to the point. He speaks with confidence, in a medium voice-not too high or low.
Swami continues:
4. His speaking style is remarkable ans shows rich culture that pleases my heart.
5. An enemy can also be made to drop weapons by listening to Hanuman.
6. Without learning Rig Veda, he can’t be so humble and polite, without learning Yajur Veda, he cannot have such great memory power, without learning Sama Veda, he cannot be so knowledgeable!

Reference: Ramayana – Kishkindha Kandam, Chapter 3, verses 28-34

Swami: Second example – When Rama sees Bharatha at the forest, he talks about the qualities needed for a good administrator:
1. The eternal kingdom should not suffer from youthful and inexperienced administrators
2. A good leader should show great respect to preceptors well versed in sacred scriptures and virtuous
3. He/she should hold God,  ancestors, dependents and teachers of his/her father’s age, the doctors and the brahmins in high esteem.
Swami continues:
4. Ministers assigned to the leader must be valiant like the leader, learned, mastered sense control, of noble birth and skilled in interpreting internal sentiments by external gestures
5. The source of victory for kings comes from concealed counsel by ministers, well-versed in political sciences who are able maintain secrets
6. Good leader should not have excess sleep. He/she must neither take decisions alone nor amidst numerous people. Decisions taken after much delibration must not reach public before execution.
Swami continues:
7. Having determined on an endeavour involving a little effort and yielding great results, a good leader should commence to execute it quickly without procrastination
8. Other leaders should come to know of the endeavours only it succeeds or about to succeed. Efforts intended to be made in future should not be revealed.
9.A single clearsighted minister who is prudent, brave and skilful can bring about great prosperity to a leader.
10. Ministers must be unyielding to bribery

Reference: Ramayana – Ayodhya Kandam, Chapter 100, Most of the verses from verse 7

Lakshmi: Wow! I didn’t realize Ramayana had stuff related to Public speaking and efficient administration that is even applicable today. What else does it have?
Swami: What does it not have should be the question that will be easy to answer!

1. Healthy, loving and selfless sibling relationship can be realized between Rama, Lakshmana, Bharata and Shatrugana
2. Qualities of a devoted, pure at heart wife can be elicited from Sita, Rama’s wife. It is said that Rama’s thoughts could be understood clearly by Sita and viceversa without expressing.
Swami continues:
1. One of the most important qualities seen in Ramayana is keeping up a promise in any adverse situation. Even when many tried convincing Rama, he went back to Ayodhya only after 14 yrs of leading ascetic life in forest.
2. Hanuman shows that, through complete devotion to God, the senses can be controlled. When he went to Lanka and saw the grandeur, along with different varieties of food and different beautiful damsels in Ravana’s palace, he was least bothered. He concentrated only on his mission and completed it successfully.                                                                       In the first chapter of Ramayana, Sage Valmiki asks the great Sage Narada:
Is there anyone living in this world now who is/has:
1.Honest 2. Great valor 3. Righteous 4. Grateful 5. Truthful 6. Good culture respecting family traditions 7. Loves every living species 8. One with firm resolve 9. Most knowledgeable 10. Personification of courage 11. Possessing great splendor and pleasing personality 12. Smartness and power to achieve anything 13. Won over anger 14. When angry, can frighten even Devas 15. Free of jealousy 16. Enlightened soul. The great Sage Narada answers: “Rama”.
Similarly, though it may take about 25-30 minutes to chant VishnuSahasraNamam (1000 names of Lord Vishnu) once learnt, when Goddess Parvathi asked Lord Shiva if there is a simple way for people who are very busy with their daily schedule (like us) to chant a name with faith that grants them the same merit as chanting the 1000 names, Lord Shiva says, “It is indeed the very sweet Rama’s name which when chanted three times is equivalent to VishnuSahasraNama”.
Lakshmi: Where did Shiva and Parvathi come in Ramayana?Isn’t there a clash between Shiva and Vishnu and devotees of Shiva and Vishnu?
Swami: The conversation between Lord Shiva and Goddess Parvathi happened during Mahabharata (long after Ramayana period). It was quoted to show the greatness of Rama Nama. As mentioned earlier, all are different forms of the same God, worshipped by devotees based on their own characteristics. There is a old child-like saying in Tamil , “Hariyum Sivanum Onnu, Ariyaathavar vaayil mannu”.ShankaraNarayanar stands tall as personification of this truth at Shankaran Koil.
Lakshmi: You also mentioned about merits obtained when chanting nama. Whenever I hear merits, I am reminded of the business minded so-called Sanyasis. “You do what I tell you so you can get merits.”
Swami: It is a problem with us. Due to lack of patience and courage, we take to quick fixes addressing symptoms rather than root cause of problems and a fake baba takes advantage of the same. A true Guru is someone who is clean, pure, enlightened, has mastered sense control(since he has realized the ultimate, he needs nothing from us) and very compassionate to everyone unbiased.
Lakshmi: You said Rama won over anger and also his anger cannot be faced by Devas. Both seem contradictory.
Swami: You got promotion today. When you go to office tomorrow, if you are fired, what will your do?
Lakshmi: No way! I will sue them and they will never see the end of it!
Swami: Rama learns he will be coronated the following day. Next day, he is banished to forest for 14 yrs(to fulfil his father’s promise to Kaikeyi). He abides by his father’s wish attaching no sentiments to either decision
Swami continues:Kambar beautifully sings (as interpreted by our ancestors), “Rama looks radiant, happy and more handsome as compared to a newly blossomed lotus when he was asked to go to forest than when he was asked to be the king”. This was owing to the opportunity he got to keep up his father’s promise. However, in the forest, when Indra’s son (in the form of a crow) hurted Sita with lustful intentions, Rama got angry and taught an unforgettable lesson. Moral of the story is: Anger arising from attachment to worldly things must be avoided. Anger to prevent sinful acts and instill righteousness is necessary!
Kamba Ramayanam Verse “கைகேயின் உரை கேட்ட இராமனது தோற்றப் பொலிவு
இப்பொழுது, எம்மனோரால் இயம்புதற்கு எளிதே? – யாரும்
செப்ப அருங் குணத்து இராமன் திருமுகச் செவ்வி நோக்கின்;
ஒப்பதே முன்பு பின்பு; அவ் வாசகம் உணரக் கேட்ட
அப் பொழுது அலர்ந்த செந்தாமரையினை வென்றது அம்மா!” – Ayodhya Kandam, Chapter 3, verse 112
Lakshmi: Why did Rama, being a king with such great qualities, had to go in search of Sita. I’ve heard his father had a lot of wives.
Swami: It is true that, in those days, kings had many wives. However, Rama had vowed to be loyal to his wife, Sita. Rama and Sita were an ideal couple. When Rama was sent to forest, Sita was asked to stay back in the kingdom. However, she chose to serve her husband and followed him into the dangerous forest leaving behind all comfort. Though many people of today call this devotion backward/old-traditioned, a good family oriented woman, being the pivot of the family, will have this quality.
Lakshmi:Did people in olden times truly give importance to women in India? I thought women were dependent and did not have much freedom.
Swami: We have been worshipping Goddesses for centuries. We had numerous great poets, queens, warriors, gurus, stalwarts in arts amongst ladies. In Ramayana, Rama respected Sita a lot. When Rama was asked to fight the demons in forest by the inhabitants, Sita reminded him that he is supposed to lead ascetic life and not be a Kshatriya per the vow but fight only when personally harmed. Rama followed it and demons were also destroyed. By the way, did you know that women in USA got right to vote only in 1920?
Swami continues: Having mentioned how women in India have achieved a lot, it still remains that women, by nature, are supposed to be tender, delicate and emotional and protected by men (father, brother, husband) who are tough and stronger by inherent nature. Women must reign as a queen through love and not through authority. During olden times, there were no protests about women equality and still women could achieve in various fields. Only mothers can ensure that their children grow up in the righteous way through love and patience. This is what Kousalya did to Rama. When he had to go to forest, her only advice was to always lead a righteous life in any adverse situation.
Lakshmi: Swami, don’t make me feel more guilty since I was not able to be with you during your childhood.
Swami: Amma, well, I was lucky to be with grandmother who taught me lot of good things. Otherwise, if I had been at a child care center or some nanny had taken care of me, I wouldn’t have learnt all the basic moral values and greatness of Sanatana Dharma. People have always asked me how this helped with your studies. It has been proved that memorizing long Sanskrit texts helps with sharper memory and cognitive skills (am strong in Maths). Learning Kamba Ramayanam has increased my creativity and have won prizes in speech competitions.
Swami continues: Again, though I mentioned the above that are trivial, the reason for learning Sanatana Dharma, is mainly to lead a good meaningful life (beyond studies and career). My inquisitiveness and deeper understanding of Ramayana has helped me to take better decisions in life’s trying situations through God’s grace and have always looked for opportunities to share and care. Chanting of “Rama” nama relieves me and rejuvenates me from any stressful situation. When you know that you are just a lever in God’s hand, even if life is like a roller coaster, you will learn to ride it fearlessly as he will ensure your safety until the end and after.
Lakshmi: All this while am wondering, if our Sanatana Dharma produced so many great people who invented lot of stuff, why was it not patented nor publicized?
Swami: People following Sanatana Dharma set an example to the world through humility, love and sharing. There was no race to prove anything to anyone as they were self sufficient and only cared about reaching God ultimately. They saw God within all fellow human beings. Also they knew (which people of today don’t understand) that “if the neural schema of Chitti robot was available in bad hands, amount of destruction will be unimaginable”.
Swami continues: In addition to what was mentioned earlier, we had a lot of documented texts like Sushruta Samhita, Charaka Samhita (both related to medicine and surgery), arthashastra (Economics, political administration), Vimanashastra (Aeronautics) and many other important works that have been translated by Indian sanskrit scholars abroad since the colonial period. It is sad that other countries realize the importance of these works but we ridicule it and lowering our own self esteem, firmly believing in history of India dictated by British.
Lakshmi: I don’t want to digress from our main topic. I want to hear what else is mentioned about a good wife in Ramayana.
Swami: When Janaka (Sita’s father) gives KannikaDhanam (donates) of Sita to Rama, he tells that Sita will support Rama in all his righteous activities. This automatically means that Sita needs to ensure that Rama doesn’t go in the wrong path.
Swami continues: When Rama and Sita goes to meet Sage Athri, his very noble wife, Anusuya mentions the following qualities that signifies a devoted wife and also mentions that Sita has all the necessary good qualities needed for the same.
1. Heavens await those women, to whom their husband is dear no matter whether he lives in a city or in a forest; whether he is sinful or virtuous.
2. No one is a better friend than a husband, who protects his wife in all circumstances.
3. Those women, whose hearts follow their passions and dominate over their husband, having no understanding of virtue and vice, reap infamy and decline in righteousness.
Lakshmi: Even though Sita was so pious and devoted to her husband why did Rama order her to be left in forest.
Swami: Sita herself tells Lakshmana when he leaves her in the forest per Rama’s orders and about to return, “I know that Sri Rama completely trusts my chastity, but being a righteous king who is a role model to all, he shouldn’t set a bad example to his people, making them not mind their wives having illegal relationships. Sri Rama treats his people as his brothers and they think high of him and I shouldn’t spoil the name”. When Sita herself understands, there is no reason for us to debate over it.
Swami continues: Having said how beautifully Sita accepted her fate, I have always felt very bad whenever I read this part. This incident shows that people, who make insensitive comments and come to conclusions without trying to determine the truth, (in this case through Hanuman and Vibhishana who are witnesses to Sita’s chastity) have been existing since a very long time. Still both Sita and Rama always thought about the well being of the people. They were following righteousnous throughout their life.
Lakshmi: Rama and Sita seem too idealistic when compared to today’s scenario. I understand that it is nice to be like them but seems very difficult.
Swami: The actual truth, per our ancestors is, the rules and regulations laid down by our scriptures(Dharma or righteousness) are based on our inherent nature and should ideally be easy to follow. In fact, we are trying to take the difficult path when we move away from Dharma. Even in today’s world, we see Mahatmas like Ramakrishna Paramahamsa, MahaPeriyava, Ramana Maharishi strictly adhering to their Dharmas. Even if we can’t be perfect like them, we can surrender to Rama and he will guide us.
Lakshmi: I’ve heard that Rama hid behind a tree and killed Vali, the monkey king. Why would ever righteous Rama do that?
Swami: Vali asks more questions that you would imagine, directly to Rama when he was hit by the arrow and Rama went near him. However, Rama clearly states that Vali needs to be punished for misbehaving with his daughter-in-law. Vali is convinced and he in-fact praises Rama just before dying. When Vali himself is convinced, there is no reason for anyone to debate over this.
Lakshmi: What are the questions Vali asked and what were the answers?
Swami: 1.What merit is achieved by you, in sending me to death when I am facing away from you (nowhere mentioned about hiding as wrongly interpreted by many). sloka (4-17-16) ,sloka (4-17-21)
2. This senseless murder is not the job of a King . sloka (4-17-19)
3. You have strayed from the path of righteousness. sloka (4-17-22)
4. You are a sinner. sloka (4-17-23)
5. I have not committed any crime in your country or in mine. sloka (4-17-24)
6. No learned person will commit a crime like this sloka (4-17-27)
7. I am an animal whose parts are of no use to humans so why did you kill me. sloka (4-17-30) ,sloka (4-17-38) ,sloka (4-17-39)
8. You killed out of self interest sloka (4-17-33)
9. You did this in distress without any sensible thinking sloka (4-17-34)
10. You have defamed your father who was great sloka (4-17-43)
11. You are a coward and not a valorous person. sloka (4-17-46) ,sloka (4-17-47)
12. If only you had depended on me you would have achieved your goal of saving Sita easily. sloka (4-17-51)
Rama’s response:
1.First Rama derides Vali for questioning the ethics of fighting after committing immoral act. sloka (4-18-04)
2. Rama first claims that Vali is just a king in the region ruled by Bharata. So He (Vali) is answerable to Rama.
3. Rama claims, in the land ruled by Bharata, nobody can do an immoral act sloka (4-18-10)and remain unpunished sloka (4-18-11)
4. Rama explains younger brother is like son and lustily indulging with his wife amounts to misbehaving with daughter-in-law.
5. This misbehavior is difficult to understand except by soul [AaTma] of principled people only. sloka (4-18-15)
6. Hence I eliminated you sloka (4-18-18) Clearly for no other reason
7. Therefore you are sentenced to death sloka (4-18-20) as No other punishment will be appropriate. sloka (4-18-21)
8. Rama quotes from Manusmriti justifying his action.
a. When the king imposes punishment on humans who have sinned, they become sinless and enter heaven similar to pious souls with good deeds (4-18-31)
b. Either by punishment or through mercy, a sinful person is absolved from his sin, but a king who does not impose proper punishment will derive the blot of that sin. sloka (4-18-32)
9. To the question why cannot Vali be pardoned Rama quoted a precedent where the king punished a yogi in similar situation sloka (4-18-33) (in the case of Maandhaata, ancestor to Rama).
10. So Rama had no alternative to killing Vali.
Lakshmi: Wow! So all these accusations happened at that time itself though Rama was loved by most folks! Were there any atheists during that time as well?
Swami: Jabali was a renowned and respected courtier in King Dasharatha’s court. When Rama resides in forest and Bharatha comes to take him back along with the people in Ayodhya, if you hear what all Jabali spoke, just to see Rama get back to the kingdom, you can very well relate to today’s atheists. Rama, being the personification of righteousness, gets very angry at Jabali’s argument but is pacified by Sage Vashishta.
Swami continues: Jabali says that he pities people who perform religious activities saying it is unnecessary and people need to go behind sense enjoyments. He says there is nothing beyond this universe, so give importance to what senses understand, accept the kingdom offered by Bharatha and enjoy the luxury. Rama, unable to tolerate this, not only states strongly that he needs to be always truthful and should keep up the promise made to his father, he is also feeling ashamed that his father had such an atheist as a respected person in his royal court. Jabali further clarifies that he said those words only to persuade Rama return to Ayodhya.

Lakshmi: Somehow, I am not able to wrap my head around the concept of re-birth as well.
Swami:Well, You don’t have to at all. At this point, we have to only understand that, we reap what we sow. If we deposit what we earn through righteous means and save for future, we get good interest and ultimately have a peaceful life fulfilling basic necessities. However, if we take a loan (to fulfil unwanted desires beyond what we can afford), we have to pay huge interest and will get into a vicious cycle of borrowing more to pay off previous loan. We can never be peaceful and happy.
Swami continues: Just like how money can be deposited to mature into a higher amount at the end of the maturity period, we can also deposit noble thoughts (About God), good words (Rama nama chant) and good actions (selfless service to others) to elevate our self by the end of our lifetime. In Bhagavad Gita, God mentions “Aarjavam” or Straightforwardness as a quality to be cultivated by us. This means that our thoughts, words and actions must align together in the path of righteousness. We  should not think something that we will be ashamed to speak about, speak something that we would never imagine doing and do something we would regret thinking about later.
Lakshmi: We need to be more logical. How can we think about something about which we cannot comprehend at all? I understand you worship Rama as God. However, I am still unable to accept that.
Swami: To a child who is beginning to learn colors, if asked to identify yellow color, he/she may not be able to comprehend. However, if he/she is told that it is the same color as his/her favorite toy, immediately color is identified. Similarly, Grandma made me identify God in Rama.
Swami continues: In India, people don’t worship Rama because he is a superhero. People worship him because, though life threw disasters after disasters at him, he never became resentful, hateful or angry or became recluse. He went about carrying out all his duties bearing a personal pain, but ensuring he does the best for his “praja”(people). This is a quote from Sadhguru (Respectable Jaggi Vasudev) relevant to our discussion here. Again,each individual has a different personality and might get drawn towards a different form of God to comprehend initially and ultimately realize God within ourselves. All of this is possible only through God’s grace.
Lakshmi: You also mentioned about straightforwardness. In today’s world, it is about tactical approach and diplomatic handling. Have you heard this phrase, “Straight trees are cut first”?
Swami: It is not just today but always sanatana dharma has been an advocator of tactical approach and diplomatic handling. Only difference is, today, it is being used to cheat people in many ways but traditionally it was only used to convey a bitter truth in a way that people feel better and accept it. Shaastras say “Only Speak truth that is pleasant but do not speak truth that is unpleasant nor lies that are pleasant”

सत्यम  ब्रूयात  प्रियं  ब्रूयात  न  ब्रूयात  सत्यम अप्रियम
प्रियंच  नानृतम  ब्रूयात  एषा  धर्मः  सनातनः
satyam bruyat priyam bruyat na bruyat satyam apriyam
Priyam cha nanrutam bruyat esha dharmah sanatanah

Speak truth in such a way that it should be pleasing to others. Never speak truth, which is unpleasant to others. Never speak untruth, even if pleasant. This is the path of eternal morality, sanatana dharma. (Manu Smriti 4.138)

Swami continued: Ramayana has a great example of the tactical approach demonstrated in getting agreement from folks who had diagonally opposite opinions on a difficult situation. Vibhishana, not able to convince Ravana to return Sita, left him and came to surrender himself to Rama. Sugriva immediately conveyed his decision to Rama that Vibhishana is an enemy and he needs to be killed. Though Rama knew the right decision will be to accept Vibhishana as per his ancestors and scriptures and though he could very well take an autonomous decision, he did not do that.
Swami continues: Rama does the following:
1. He appreciates Sugriva’s concern and says that not everyone will be a great friend like Sugriva
2. He also asks for the opinions of other Vanaras stating they are his well-wishers.Some say Vibhishana needs to be tested and Hanuman says he is good and should be accepted.
3. Rama, with humility, now asks permission to express opinion. Then he quotes from past and scriptures where an enemy who seeks refuge has been accepted. All are now convinced and also happy that their opinions were also considered
Lakshmi: Interesting! Though, I still feel Vibhishana shouldn’t have left his brother in such a bad situation.
Swami: Valmiki explains this beautifully in a sloka and interpreted beautifully as well by our ancestors. He says, Having warned Ravana of the consequence of his evil act (which fell in deaf ears), Vibhishana “came” to Rama, “who was together with Lakshmana”. He said “came” instead of “went” to signify he reached where he needs to be (we “go” to places but we always “come” back to home). Also he means Vibhishana left people who doesn’t listen to brothers to Rama who listens to brothers(Lakshmana).

Sloka – Yuddha Kaandam, Chapter 17, Sloka 1:
इति उक्त्वा परुषम् वाक्यम् रावणम् रावण अनुजः |
आजगाम मुहूर्तेन यत्र रामः सलक्ष्मणः ||

“Ithyuktva parusham vaakyam raavanam ravananuja
Aaja gaama muhurthena yatra ramaha salaksnmana”

Lakshmi: If Rama is so powerful, why did he fall unconscious in the war and had to be restored by Hanuman, carrying a mountain from Himalayas!!!
Swami: Indrajit used Brahmastra against Rama and Lakshmana. In order to honor the Brahmastra (granted by Lord Brahma to Indrajit) they laid down unconsciously. Vibhishana says this. Hanuman’s feat is indeed unbelievable. But, the same Hanuman had flown to gobble the Sun when he was a very small boy, thinking of it as a fruit. Before debating whether this can happen, we should realize that what we know is as small as a handful of sand and what we don’t is as big as the Earth in Thiruvalluvar’s terms.
Swami continues: When we see some of these rare feats achieved by people in Guinness book of world records, we feel it is unbelievable. Same is the case with child prodigies. These are small things as compared to what we can achieve if we truly try to understand ourselves.  Even if we don’t believe in Hanuman’s feat, we should learn the following fact through his example in Ramayana – If we have the enthusiasm, commitment towards a good cause,humility and true faith in God, even a 90 year old can achieve anything in life. If these are lacking, even a strong, intelligent 20 yr old with six pack cannot achieve anything significant in life.
Lakshmi: Wasn’t Hanuman the monkey that created havoc in Ravan’s forest and burnt down Lanka? I remember you mentioned about him being a Toastmaster. Somehow unable to believe it.
Swami: In many of the recent movies, the protoganist will be a paid killer or doing some illegal activities. However, we are happy if he marries the heroine and gets out unscathed. If he dies, we don’t like the movie. When we can support someone knowing that he is done bad things (which is wrong), how can we comment insensitively on someone being worshipped by many without understanding the rationale behind those acts.
Swami continues: During the situation wherein Brahmastra rendered most Vanaras dead and Rama and Lakshmana unconscious to respect it, Vibhishana and Hanuman(unaffected) searches and finds Jambavan slowly regaining his consciousness. As soon as Jambavan sees Vibhishana, he immediately enquires on Hanuman’s well being. Vibhishana is surprised that he did not ask about Rama, Lakshmana or Sugriva. Jambavan replies”At the hour of danger, if Hanuman is dead, even if we are all alive, it is equivalent to being dead, if Hanuman is alive, even if we are all dead, we are alive! “True to this, Hanuman saved all with Sanjeevani. However he was still humble and attributes his success at the feet of Rama.
Swami continues: The whole Sundara Kandam is a great treasure that teaches a lot. Most of it is around how Hanuman handles every situation with clarity after thinking about it for very short period of time. For just a school exam, we see that if we study well, we answer any question without much thinking. However, life’s exam is never pre-determined and can happen every moment of life. To face it with clarity, Hanuman shows that sincere devotion to God in turn leading to humility and true understanding of sanatana dharma is the only solution. I am also in pursuit of the same solution through Hanuman’s grace.His great knowledge of the Vedas is attributed to his childhood guru,Surya (Sun God).
Lakshmi: Swami, Still a teenager, you seem to know a lot of stuff on Sanatana Dharma and Ramayana.
Swami: Not at all, Amma. I have only started on the journey of self-realization through God’s grace. Somehow our conversation lead me to share whatever I have been learning and continuing to learn.Each time I read Ramayana, I learn a new dimension that I never noticed when I read previously.
Lakshmi:You continue your journey as I see a great amount of clarity in your words, thoughts and actions. I will try to follow as much as I can.

Vichaaram – 1

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Lakshmi alias Lucky: “Hey Sam! I have been appointed as the Chief Editor of our esteemed magazine! I am proud of my creative writing skills”
Sam alias Swaminathan: “Amma, please call me Swaminathan. I am happy for you . Did you pray to Lord Ganesha?”
Lakshmi: “Why do I have to do that?”
Swami: “So that you will do your duty righteously giving up your pride and be humble. Ganesha showed this by breaking off his tusk (an elephant’s pride) to write Mahabharata which is revered as the 5th Veda”.
Lakshmi: How would I become humble by praying to an idol?
Swami: Who’s your role model?
Lakshmi: My boss.
Swami: Do you know that your boss is a chain smoker?He told me last party.When you know that your role model has bad qualities,you tend to get disgusted,or follow him.Instead,if you pray/follow GOD(who is perfect),you will get his qualities,which include humbleness,in due course of time.
Swami: Further about idol worship, can you imagine Prerajulization on top of Farhannitrate?
Lakshmi: Very Funny! Amir Khan himself says it is nothing
Swami: Exactly! Can you imagine an yellow crow?
Lakshmi: Yes,I can imagine that
Swami: Material image is associated with a mental idea pre-existing and viceversa. In Sanatana Dharma, as the baby step to realize the omnipresent God, we imagine God to be an idol that relates to the worshipper’s character
Lakshmi: There are so many Gods, it is sooo confusing
Swami: Are butter, cheese and ghee totally different from milk?
Lakshmi: Of course not. Butter, cheese and ghee are different forms obtained from milk
Swami: Exactly! All the different idols are representing one omnipresent God in different forms with different names. Some people like butter but not cheese while others like ghee but not butter. Similarly, people take affinity to one form more than the other due to their personality
Lakshmi: I am having a hard time understanding how an idol/statue/photo can attract someone to worship?
Swami: Whenever you are down, you stare at your mother’s picture. Why is that?
Lakshmi: I lost my mom when I was very young and her smile in the picture and her caring eyes always re-assures me.
Swami: Similarly, if I show a photo of a female goddess who is very beautiful with eyes filled with compassion and a heartwarming smile and ask you to confide your feelings to her, you may be attracted. If you do so with conviction, you will be answered.
Lakshmi: Though I may get attracted to the goddess at first glance, how can I develop the trust and conviction that she will solve my problems?
Swami: Last month, you had a surgery. You hadn’t seen the surgeon before. How did you trust him to cut into your body?
Lakshmi: He is a very famous surgeon that many prominent people have praised.
Swami: If that unconditional trust can be placed on an imperfect person, why is it difficult to trust the perfect, All Pervading God whose compassion experienced by our ancestors made them praise God in abundance
Lakshmi: If God is all pervading and most compassionate, why doesn’t he keep me problem-free always?
Swami: Your question is similar to the situation where you put all trash on the road side by the “No Littering” sign and few steps away from a trash box and complain,”Why doesn’t the Government keep the place clean?” God has given us his instructions to lead a happy life through Bhagavad Gita and also knowledgeable Guru’s to answer your queries. If you ignore it, who is to be blamed – you or God?
Lakshmi: You know how erratic is my job schedule. It is difficult to spend time on this. Does God mandate everyone to read this book to lead a happy life? What about people who can’t read?
Swami: God never mandates anything. If you buy a new machine, you have to read a manual or ask someone who knows about it to run the machine smoothly. Our body is a machine too that we haven’t understood properly. Bhagavad Gita is a manual to help understand ourselves and our body properly.Those who read and understood will automatically help others understand.
Swami: If you are sincerely trying to attain happiness and peace in life, you have to take efforts for the same. Nothing precious comes easy. Did you get to the current position in office easily?
Lakshmi: Not at all. I overcame enormous problems to reach current position.
Swami: Which is why you value it a lot. However, you are so engulfed in work, when you get back from work, you feel a vaccum and unable to get rid of it even after trying lot of recreational stuff. So what you desired most until now, even after achieving, you are tired and not satisfied.
Lakshmi: It is true I am obsessed with my work. Irrespective of whether I am working for someone or doing business, I have to work hard to settle in life and save for children’s future. I would go crazier if I have to sit at home.
Swami: Most animals also do the same. They slog to eat, mate, take care of kids, sleep and keep repeating the same daily until their body doesn’t co-operate and live on what comes their way. There must be a reason why God gave us a greater ability to think and discriminate between right and wrong. Until we pause amidst our busy schedule to seek the answer, this life that he gave us has been wasted.
Lakshmi: We have scientifically advanced a lot using our intelligence unlike our ancestors who dwelled in superstitious beliefs.
Swami: Heard of Poet Kalidas? His poem starting with “Puraana Mithyeva” states “Just because something is new, it cannot be accepted by default. Similarly just because something is old, it cannot be discarded and viceversa. Need to analyze to determine which is better”. It is through intelligence of our ancestors that Ayurveda and Yoga is available to the world. With all modern medicines having side effects, loads of people are turning towards Ayurveda and yoga which naturally heals permanently without side effects.
Swami: Though I completely respect my ancestors and believe that they were more intelligent than we are and don’t need proofs for the same, providing few samples for you:
1. Budhayana explained the concept of what is today known as Pythogorean Theorem in Baudhāyana Sulba Sūtra as early as 6th or 7th century BCE.
2. Bhaskaracharya calculated time taken by Earth to orbit around the sun as 365.258756484 days hundreds of years before the astronomer Smart.
3. World’s first university was established  in Takshila in 700 BC.
4. Sushruta is the father of surgery. He has conducted complex surgeries 2600 years ago.
5. Sage Kanad (Kashyapa), 600BC is recognized as the founder of atomic theory. He determined atom is indivisible and that every object of creation is made of atoms that in turn connect to each other to form molecules nearly 2500 yrs before what in mentioned in our books.
6. Arthashastra written by Chanakya has an elaborate text on economics, accounting, laws of administration, management and accounting referred till date by economists and administrators for guidance.
Lakshmi: Whoa!This is good information that I wasn’t aware. Will try to analyze more. Are you saying that there was no superstitious beliefs at that time?
Swami: We have a specific flag representing every nation. It is a colored piece of cloth. However, we feel patriotic when this piece of cloth is hoisted and we don’t consider it superstitious. In fact, we have laws to avoid any act defaming the flag. Then why do we call it superstitious if Sanatana Dharma prescribes certain activities to help a person cleanse himself on the outside(body) and inside (soul).

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Swami: In English there is a proverb: “Early to bed, Early to rise, makes a man healthy wealthy and wise”. Do you call this superstition?I have heard you say many times “When I sleep early, get up early and bath in cold water, I feel very refreshed and get lot of things done than when I get up late”. “Aachaaram” in Sanatana Dharma refers to the discipline necessary in life to lead a moral, ethical life bestowing us with good conduct and character. This discipline along with devotion to God, when practiced religiously reduces our growing desires and help us lead a happy and peaceful life ultimately.
Lakshmi: Your words are very flowery and saying such things is very easy. Be practical!
Swami: You have told me you were born in a lower middle class family with not much money in savings but you were able to study in a small dilapidated school. When you told your rich relatives you wanted to be a successful journalist with your own house at that time, they also said “Be Practical!” However, you were able to achieve your dream as you worked hard towards it. It is a matter of knowing what you truly need, dream about reaching there and taking one step at a time trusting God.
Lakshmi: I was very young at that time and I could work hard to reach this stage after lot of difficulties. However, it is very difficult to concentrate now and try something new that I am unable to grasp.
Swami: It is true that Sanatana Dharma should  be instilled at a very young age to children so that they can follow its ideals easily and grow up into peaceful, self-sufficient and compassionate people with lot of love for their fellow citizens. However, many parents and teachers today don’t have the patience to mould the children in the right path. They are so busy earning money, though it doesn’t seem to give them happiness.
Lakshmi:Learning about Sanatana Dharma is not going to help children earn money. Also, parents do love their children and try to get them what they want.
Swami: This is the problem with the previous and current generation. Can money stop death? Did people who lived pompously die taking all their wealth with them?This is the reason current generation either break down quickly and unable to persevere through life’s trying situations. They find it easy to quit or find shortcuts leading to more problems. If children know their Dharma well and have a strong spiritual base, they will excel everywhere (money will just be an insignificant perk).
Swami: There is a part in Mahabharata where it is said that Abhimanyu learnt about how to break a difficult army formation (Chakravyuham) and get to the center through his father, Arjuna when he was in his mother’s womb. It is also a proven fact as well that, a child gets hearing capability when inside the womb for 5 months. From that time until the first 5 yrs is a great time to instill the spiritual base that makes them a righteous person with strong moral values. Once built at that age, it can never be shaken subsequently and they will excel while being disciplined/ethical in whatever field they choose.
Lakshmi: Why does anyone need to have a spiritual base to be disciplined and ethical. We can just teach required values so they follow it.
Swami: This is where the role model concept mentioned previously applies. You can tell the child to always speak the truth, do righteous work and always have good thoughts. However, life presents many challenges in the form of growing desires making us slip away easily from what we learnt. At all these junctures, we need to follow the path laid down by the perfect “role model”, God, to come out of those situations unscathed.
Swami: By very young age, children should ideally:
1. Trust that God is always with them – Either guiding them through trying situations or being the reason for their happy/good situations.
2. As a corollary, be aware that God is always watching them and within them so they abstain from sinful acts.

Lakshmi: I am still unable to comprehend the concept of God. We have one life – a short one, let us live and enjoy to the fullest and be done with it.
Swami: According to our knowledgeable ancestors, us enjoying this life is like the situation where a person is running in a dark forest to save himself from a ferocious, hungry lion and he slips and hangs onto a weak branch with a deep well below having poisonous snakes. When he looks up (above the lion waiting at the top of the well), a drop of extremely sweet honey falls into his mouth from a tree and he relishes it foolishly (at the point of no escape).
Lakshmi: Ooh scary!Please! Life is not so bad. You sound as if we should all become sanyasis.
Swami: I know you just got a promotion and you are happy, so this reaction. Just few weeks before, when your colleague double crossed you by stealing one of your stellar work and claiming credit, you were soooo upset and completely depressed. Also because of your career, you had to leave your only son (myself) with grandmother for years until I started going to college. You’ve told me that you felt so depressed due to this many a time. Life minus belief in God is a bed of thorns. Life with belief in God is still a bed of thorns minus pain and blood.
Swami: To better understand through an example, consider the great lyricist Kannadasan. He was an atheist initially though loved the Tamil literary work of ancient great devotees of God. He faced lot of problems in life. However, subsequently through God’s grace, after constant self introspection, became a staunch devotee of God. He still faced a lot of problems that he talks about in his classic book, “Arthamulla Indhu Madham”(Meaningful Hindu Religion) but he was able to breeze through the problems easily through God’s grace. This book explains in simple terms about the essence of Sanatana Dharma using day to day happenings to the masses.
Lakshmi: Somehow you have kindled some interest in me to understand more about God. However I shouldn’t be narrow minded knowing only about God of Hindu religion. I should be open to accept all.
Swami: Good to know about your interest. When you study at school, there are different sections in each class. You are placed in one section. It doesn’t mean that you will learn different maths as compared to other sections. All learn same maths but your section may have a different  schedule,  methods vs the other section. However, we don’t sit in section A one day and go to B the next day. We learn what we need to, being in the class assigned to us.